Title: What Do I Do?
Jay Serge - February 16, 2007 07:16 PM (GMT)
What do I do if one of my my admin just suddenly out of no where drive one of my other admin away form my sidte and they leave? What should I do with the attacking admin? Please help.
Darth Makar - February 16, 2007 08:48 PM (GMT)
Okay, so admin A kicked out admin B, but admin A is still present? Firstly, I would speak with admin A to see why he/she kicked out admin B. Maybe there was a legitimate reason. Secondly, I would speak with admin B to hear his/her side of the story. Thirdly, I would act appropriately: if admin B did something offensive which should result in being kicked out, I would maybe give him or her one more chance. If admin A kicked out admin B for no reason at all, I would have a serious talk with admin A. (Or ban him/her for that matter if it seems fit.)
Toni-May - February 16, 2007 09:04 PM (GMT)
I suppose I couldn’t say much more than what Darth said… are you the root admin? And if so I would take it on hand and explain that you didn’t like how it was dealt with, if you are not the root admin I would still express this but in a less direct manner, if you still wish to admin the site. But make sure you know their reason for doing so first. If it is unjustified then give a punishment out.
Jay Serge - February 16, 2007 09:25 PM (GMT)
Hmm thanks you two, I'll think about what you both have said, I forgot to post this bit, but this is what was said on the Cbox on my site:
| QUOTE |
Jools[This ain't a scene]: I'm here! Sorry, just this damn musical ..<
Jools[This ain't a scene]: *>.<
Jools[Wept Like An Angel]: Oh.... no ones here... thats nice.
Adam: Stunner... when are you planning on posting in Marking? Or are you? -begins closing topics- im makin one with Alex now
Jools[Wept Like An Angel]: WELL I AM SORRY IF I AM IN A DAMN MUSICAL AND MY STEP MUM IS BLANKING ME BECAUSE APPRENTLY 'SHE DOESN'T WANT TO WATCH ME. SO I'VE BEEN A BIT BUSY AND HAVEN'T BEEN ABLE TO POST ON THE STUPID TOPIC, OK?
Jools[Wept Like An Angel]: Oh god, now I sound like a crazy woman. -Headesk- sorry, I've just been stressed.
Adam: Don't flip out on me, I was just asking. You can calm the fuck down now... weirdo
Jools[Wept Like An Angel]: YEAH, THATS RIGHT. LETS ALL POINT AND LAUGH AT FUCKING JULIET WHOS LIFE IS SO SCREWED RIGHT NOW, SHE IS TAKING FUCKING PILLS. HAHAHAHAHAHA. SO FUNNY!
Jools[Wept Like An Angel]: I'll save you the pleasure of deleting my account by deleting it myself. Bye.
Adam: Uhuh... I've been busy and stressed like you too, I wasn't complaining, just asking.
Adam: Bye then...
Jools[Wept Like An Angel]: There deleted. Bye.
Jools[Wept Like An Angel]: And if its not, you do.
Mr. Gothard: What the fuck Adam! What the hell is wrong with you, why the hell did you just make that happen? Fuck sakes now I'm pissed off |
Over the year's I've had a lot of problems with Cbox's so I've now removed the Cbox for good from the site this happened upon. When it comes to be being Root admin I'm kind of am but kind of not, the site this happened on was a remake of an old site of mine which I created but on this one I created it with a team.
Fantasystar - February 16, 2007 09:44 PM (GMT)
Okay
Firstly, there is always a lead admin to deal with this stuff. Other admins are cool, doing it as a team works wonders. But you need one to be the top, and the others to be below. (My opinion, not to be followed if you don't want to)
Secondly, I'd say just let it go. Jools obviously needs time off to relax her life. Sometimes life gets in the way of being on a site. Also, I don't htink adam attacked her. Attacking would be actually saying some of the stuff to her that she said to herself. He was more asking her to post, becuase he needed her to post.
So I'd just say let her have her time away from the board to get her life in order.
Darth Makar - February 17, 2007 02:46 AM (GMT)
I don't really think that Adam drove Juliet off the site since he actually didn't say anything like "leave now". Sure, he didn't choose his words wisely considering the situation, especially calling her a weirdo. People get stressed and it's best to help them--at least let them cool off--rather than creating a bigger deal out of it.
My suggestion would be to definitely talk to both sides. Adam, it seems, needs to be more considerate. And Juliet needs to just take a deep breath and perhaps take a vacation as well. I would encourage her to come back when she has time, and she can resume her position of administrator.
Good luck!
Pig_catapult - February 17, 2007 07:55 AM (GMT)
Okay. This sounds like someone having a major mood swing. If I interpreted what she said correctly, she's probably been recently diagnosed with some sort of depression disorder, and has been prescribed meds. The meds have probably not started working yet due to her not having been on them for long enough to have a therapeutic level in her bloodstream. People do not think rationally when in deep mood swings, either manic or depressive. Also, if she's around thirteen years old, she might be having her first period, which was at least for me the worst one ever mood-wise. I vaguely recall being curled up in the bathtub just wanting to die. Give her a few days. She'll probably come back.
This explanation is brought to you by:
Pig_catapult, a person who takes prescribed anti-depressants on a daily basis.