When I first started RPing, it was on a AU HP site. There was one girl that I did a post with, I think it was something to do with a rock, and we became like best friends. After than, she would always post in the threads I started, not allowing me to RP with the new people, because the site easily got 100 members. When ever I left a thread we were in with someone else, she would do something completely stupid, hoping that I would go back. And somehow we almost became bf/gf, but the site just disappeared.

She remade it and tried to get everyone back. She said that it was exactly like the old one when it came to my attention. I saw it and the skin was different, to problem, but she kinda got rid of the relaxed, play-your-way, easy flowing mood. All we had to do on the old one to start posting was answer a reply a thread with few questions answered and get sorted. She made this huge application that was about three pages when I just barely got the requirements. And made a long rule sheet and all these other things, trying to keep it to her perfect little world and have everything her way. It turned me off so I never RPed, it wouldn't even load for all the data she put up and all that junk.

Now what bugged me was that when she started doing sites. She would make rules and be hypocritical when I broke them. Surprisingly, I was bugged by this, not that anyone cared or even saw, but I always never break the rules, and I want someone to point out when I do. She wouldn't really care what I did, besides having good application, as long as our chars had a good relationship. She would always jump from just met, to taking me everywhere, to stalking me, all in a matter of six pages of posts.

I felt embarrassed because we were in our group of RPers and like I was losing the others respect. I didn't want to lose them, because they were good and diverse, but I didn't want to tell her off becuase I'm too nice. I lost contact with her and my life was much dramaless. She found a site that my friends and I were on; we made a site, did it for a month, than do something else because we were quick people; and she made a fake disguise and everything to RP with us, mainly me. I found out from a friend it was her becuase she made a site, and had the same exact rules, word for word, plus the posts were pretty much the same.

The funny thing is, she has me on a string. I found another AU HP site like my first on, it was much better done, and she did it. I joined it, not only becuase her, but becuase there were two others I haven't RPed with since my first. I just want to know how to keep from her little schemes of keeping me too herself, becuase I just can't do it alone!

I'm only asking because you didn't actually say you did, but, have you actually told her to back off and give you some breathing room? Other than that, there isn't much you can do except ignore her (immature, but probably what I'd go for XP) or go along with it.

No, but that is completely against my moral fiber. I'm too nice to tell people to back off or leave me alone unless they're trying to get punched in the face(Not really).

There isn't really a nice, diplomatic way of doing it. She obviously doesn't get a hint, and when she makes a fake persona to still RP with you.. now, thats taking it a bit far. The best way you can go about it is to a) talk to her. Since you're moral and all ^^ try and be nice about it. Say you want to broaden your horizons, not always RP with her, ect. ect. Maybe say you two should take a break from RPing with each other so you can grow on your own.. haha, sorry this sounds weird. I've never dealt with the situation you are in, but I'm sure its frusterating!

The other option is, as was said, to ignore her. =P

G'luck!