Seriously, you want to act like that after everything? grow up and I mean seriously. You're an absolute jerk at school and now you think it's alright to pretend to my family that you're a good person? Everybody you have dated that has dumped you, you claim to still love. You will ask ANYONE out. I pity you, you lack a heart. Grow up. You can't just say one thing and think it'll suddenly be better between you and everyone. Nobody likes you. Be an actual nice guy for once, don't PRETEND to be.

Oh man. Can I identify! My ex was something like that. He acted very nice to particular people, but in private he was controlling and could never be satisfied. He had an obnoxious double-faced attitude...everyone around him could see it, but he just complained about how things were so difficult.

For example; he proposed to me once, repeatedly telling me 'I really mean it!' even though he had no ring, but then he took it back later. We broke up, and three months later he was calling me to tell me he was a changed man who couldn't imagine life without me, and he wanted to get married and have babies. Keep in mind...he went on dates with three or four other people since the breakup. And he lied to his mother, telling her that I was totally devastated about the breakup and was asking to get back together, even though I have been happy as a lark ever since that day. Even after I told him no, he called back yet again, wanting an explanation.

Ex: I'm still in love with you. I'll do anything to get you back.
Ash: Don't say that.
Ex: Why not?
Ash: It's not true! Would you kill someone for me?
Ex: ...Yes.
Ash: *strangles phone on its own cord in her fury*

Whatever your situation is, I hope things work out for you, and for the person who's a pretend nice-guy. Some people...they just don't get it! Hopefully he'll 'get it' someday.