I'd like to throw a virtual baby shower for one of my good friends on a forum, and I was wondering if y'all would help me with ideas of things we could do for her. She's an assistant admin, so the other admin and I are secretly sending messages to the other members about it. This could turn into a template for other occasions, which might be a fun thing to do on other sites.

The baby will be a boy, and is due in May. We want to have the party in March or April, and we're going to be sending her a giant care package. We might also get something from Amazon. She also has two-year-old twins, both a boy and girl. The pregnancy has been real hard on her, and having to deal with the twins too has made it much more difficult. Her husband has also decreed that the boys can't wear any pastels (including blues and greens), and she's freaking out because it's so hard to find stuff that's not pastel and convince all her friends not to give her anything pastel. Plus she loves pastels....

Here's some of our ideas:
-since we're using SMF, we're making it into a single forum with it's own skin (a feature I don't think any other software has)
-the care package
-having members make special graphics and other little bits like poems and quotes

Otherwise, I can't think of anything else...